‘the boy must die’

man, oh man, it’s simple as f
women just want to be TAKEN
they want your reality to swoop em up
and take em somewhere
have them transported
like the tornado takes Dorothy
or like Alice is taken
down the rabbit hole

and people too, in general,
wanna be TAKEN

by the one who has the strength and the core-confidence
and knows where he is going
amidst all this fucken uncertainty

plain and simple


strange loop #1

you get what you TAKE
and you take what you GIVE

you don’t attract what you want
you attract what you ARE

psychology & plasticity

certain things trigger a feeling of happiness and a sense of completeness in us
but all of us respond this way to different things

as we experience these particular things our body pumps itself full of feel-good chemicals and we feel good

for one person X has to happen in order for that to happen, for another Y
but the fact remains:
we are the source of all our feelings, they don’t come from outside us

‘nobody can give you anything that you don’t already have’

growing up we adopted certain standards & rules that bind the release of feel-good chemicals in us to certain things outside us,

in effect, we programmed ourselves to be triggered into state by specific circumstances in our lives…

…reprogramming starts with Clarification

note to self

a strong back
a soft front

a supple spine
that backs up
an open heart

lose all impulse to impress
and fuck what others think/feel/say about you

stay self-amused

desire and devour
ravish and enjoy
without attachment

fall through the hole of all fear

the NOW is all there is


“success is only possible if you genuinely believe it is. A lot of people talk about success – about wanting it, about how great it would be, about other successful people… but they fail to commit to the course of action that will actually make them successful. If you have doubts about your ability to succeed, whether realized or not, you will never fully commit to your goals, and you’ll never achieve them. You’ll always find ways to sabotage yourself, find excuses, rattle off lists of limitations out of your control, and find yourself nowhere near your stated goal. If you want something, you need to make an honest assessment of what’s necessary and whether or not you’re willing to do what it takes. If not, quit lying to yourself about what you’re doing.” (Greg Everett)

“Success means doing the best we can with what we have. Success is the doing, not the getting; in the trying, not the triumph. Success is a personal standard, reaching for the highest that is in us, becoming all that we can be.” (Zig Ziglar)

“Success is doing what you want to do, when you want, where you want, with whom you want, as much as you want.” (Tony Robbins)

“you are successful or full of excuses” (Nagy Richárd)

get C (2)

get clear on where you’re at
where you are grounded

where is your base?
where do you gravitate towards?

are these anchoring points actually holding you back
are they behind you, in the past or forced onto you, in the present? are they stifling you and pulling you back?
are they pulling you forward, setting you on an upward spiral,
drawing you into a stronger version of yourself?

clarify, make a choice and take committed action