reciprocity

some people expect you to feel forced/stifled/contrived/affected/awkward/mannered in their presence
so strongly (and compellingly)
that you cannot help but
feel forced/stifled/contrived/affected/awkward/mannered in their presence

state is contagious

and while dysfunctional (fear-ridden) states spread easily like wildfire
a strong commitment to a grounded state/presence can override that; field-test it!

when you are present and committed to presence you ‘expect’ the other to feel accomodated so much so
that they will feel indeed at ease=present themselves, not reverting to the reactive, (passive-) agressive games of the ego

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