a couple of Q-tips

we are all in need of proper Q-ing

Q-ing is about dezombifying interactions
and enhancing the quality of communication
towards both self & other

1 be direct:
avoid posing routine Qs
like “How was your weekend?”
that ignite a routine response
like “It was ok”
instead, pose Qs that are raw(er)
like “So, what happened to you on Saturday?”
to interrupt autocued patterns

Q-ing is about en-lightening self & other

2 be real:
unless genuine curiosity informs your Qs:
you won’t find out what makes self & other tick
you won’t find out about those [conflicting] why(s) inside

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