IF X THEN Y
where X is a given
and Y is chosen
if I get that girl/job/etc
then I’ll feel at peace
if I lose that girl/job/etc
then I’ll feel depressed
what are the conditions & the rules
that I have adopted/set up & that I need to meet
in order to feel fulfilled, aligned & at peace?
and more importantly:
do these self-imposed rules serve me (give more than they take)?
and how can I make them serve me even more?