tensegrity

tolerance for (awkward) silence is a measure of presence
or facelessness: freedom from the stress of seeking to save face

pressure is not something you put on someone else
it is something you leave them with

for no matter who triggers it:
tension is self-generated & self-inflicted

the one who feels has less (face) to lose
is the one who reacts less

..instead of immediately breaking the silence or fidgeting
(in order to offload the pressure of attention)
the one who is more grounded & centered will leverage tension
to understand & hack social dynamics

tolerance for pressure is a measure of presence

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