If you were absolutely fearless, would you be earning a living in exactly the same way as you are now? (David Deida)
count the number of times you curb your (deeper) impulses during the day
the same way as resentment builds to an inevitable tipping point and “phase shift” in a relationship
from the seed of mismanaged expectations and repressed impulses,
every subtle jolt you swallow back day by day keeps building up inside until the growing resentment you feel deep down towards yourself breaks loose..