Can you leave them alone and stop demanding that they be(come) somebody for you? Can you let them be free of your tacit expectations & demands? Can you care unconditionally? Can you love them for real? Can you love through their fear? Could you do all this to yourself first?
Does the hand that animates a puppet have any real personality? Now: How could a nervous system have one that animates a body? Ponder this: Who/Where/What exactly are you?
How many times am I going to ask the same set of questions before I get that there is no satisfactory answer to (ego-) loaded questions?
Can you tell the STATES (of your body-mind) from their SPACE (of consciousness)?
Feel the rising impulsion that compels you to be in control and take possession of the pleasant things that seem to have come to you recently; see the self that lays claim on what happens to unfold in the moment and let what it seeks to sustain go: give the power back, give the lead back to life, relax into your brilliant nothingness. Stay humble, be simple. Dwell where you truly belong. Relax bitch.
The price of the truth is emotional pain, to the extent that you resist it.
Keith Hodge: ’’That’s why antisocial people are antisocial: they overthink, they over-analyze every little thing.’’